So,
Monday we found out that one of our Elders was really sick and stuck
at home. This immediately brought out the Mother Hen in me. One of
the things that was drummed into my head from an incredibly young age
was that people always take care of each other. We lived out in the
middle of nowhere with no Doctors or Ambulance Services, so if your
neighbor got sick or needed help, you helped them. It didn't even
matter if you liked them or thought of them as friends. In times of
crisis, big and small, people came together to help each other out.
So,
I fixed a large thermos of soup (Homemade Chicken Noodle Soup) and
took it over along with some fresh baked Pumpkin Spice Cookies just
to give him something healthy to eat and to let him know we cared
about him. Both he and Elder Brown were extremely grateful and even
seemed somewhat surprised that I would go to such lengths. I just
smiled, nodded and accepted their thanks even though to me it was
nothing impressive to do it.
Last
night, the Elders were supposed to come over for dinner, but Brown
called and told me that Berg's Bug had spread to other Elders so they
would be unable to come over. I had prepared my famous 5 Bean Soup
and Elder Berg was very excited since he “Hadn't had Bean Soup in
forever.” I quickly decided that just because they couldn't come
over, it didn't relieve me of my “obligation” to feed them as I
promised. So I filled another thermos up with Bean Soup, packed some
chips and the Halloween Candy we had bought them in a bag and set
out. I stopped by the store and bought them some juice and some
apples. I then happily delivered the Booty to the Elders with my
dearest wishes that they feel better soon. Again, I was met with
thanks and amazement.
I
think the Amazement is what surprises me. When I was growing up, we
were very poor and really didn't have a lot of food to spare most
weeks. Winter was especially hard since we couldn't grow anything to
eat so if we didn't grow enough during the Spring and Summer, things
got tough. Despite all of this, I have many many memories of my Mom
and my Grandmother cooking and delivering food and other essentials
to people in our area who were sick and injured. Sometimes it was
even delivered on foot if my Dad or Granddad weren't around to drive.
Course keep in mind, the ladies didn't walk 5-10 miles to deliver
the food, we kids did. :)
Back
then, people took care of people in any way they could and I think
that is an idea that has slowly lost its glamor over the decades
since then. These days, most people are so busy trying to get ahead
and to get stuff for themselves that they just don't seem to care
about people around them. It is like a veil is drawn over their eyes
to the needs of others.
As
I have stated in previous blogs, that is one of the things I find
most amazing about our Church and the people within it. Everyone
seems to genuinely care about everyone else. The Church and its
Leaders from the 1st Prophet we have been so lovingly
gifted with down to the Bishops of the Wards truly love and care for
the members of the Church. When they ask, “How are you doing? Is
there anything we can do to help?” you know that it is asked in
complete love and sincerity. All of the Members of my ward and my
good friend Stephanie's Ward that I have actually managed to get to
know truly seem to care about me and my Wife's well being. The love
and support we have received from people who, just a few months ago,
were complete strangers is mind boggling and humbling.
So
when I help the Elders or anyone else, I don't feel like I am doing
anything extraordinary or amazing. All I am doing is taking the love
and support learned from my Old Family and from my New Family and
paying it forward. I think the whole world would be a little better
off if we all paid it forward a little.
I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen